Love you Wanted, not Needed.

When you find yourself broken up with your significant other, ask yourself why is my life so miserable?

If you answer is because I need [insert name of other]. Then you might as well get over him or her now.

The only reason why you should really be devastated after a break up is if that person is who you want to be with for the rest of your life.

There are those relationships in which we know will be short term, and we do them anyways, but they shouldn't be devastating because you know that its not right.

The following is a link to a song that inspired this thought.
Against Me- Sink Florida, Sink
Not one more word tonight
between here and there
We'll put a distance the size of the ocean
so now this heart can beat a skipping rhythm
As the cadence carries me
I almost drift away
far enough to forget
but when it comes you cannot hesitate
and when found i will write
an account and seal it in an envelope
addressed to your last known residence

Whoaaaa.
whoa - oh - oh - ah - ohhh
woah - oh - oh - ah - ohhhhh
woah - oh - oh - ohhhhhh

And we sink, and we drown
and what is lost can never be found
well these arms did swim,
until the lungs pulled in
panic was lost in a deep understanding
that you will see what is wrong with everything
what is wrong with you and me
they make all the right reasons to fuck it up
you're gonna fuck it up

Whoaaaa.
whoa - oh - oh - ah - ohhh
woah - oh - oh - ah - ohhhhh
woah - oh - oh - ohhhhhh